My Approach

I help adults in Texas move from feeling stuck and struggling to living full, rich, meaningful, and authentic lives, one session at a time.

How do I do that?

In my work, I draw from a variety of “third-wave” cognitive and behavioral therapies, especially Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), while tailoring my approach to the unique context of each individual client. I believe therapy works best when it’s grounded in a safe, caring, respectful, and highly collaborative relationship, and building a genuine connection with my clients is an important part of how I work.

Sounds good, huh? but what does all that mean?

Let’s break it down…

What are “third wave” cognitive and behavioral therapies (CBTs)?

Let’s start with the “CBT” part…

“Cognitive Behavioral Therapies,” or CBT, refers to a “family” of therapies that share a commitment to using scientific research to develop effective approaches to healing and change. CBT has a remarkable record of research support and is widely considered a “gold standard” or “frontline treatment” for many common mental health and behavior problems.

Okay… what about this “third wave” thing?

Over the past several decades, cognitive and behavioral therapy has developed through three broad “waves.”

The first wave, beginning in the 1950s, applied scientific principles of learning and behavior to mental health problems. The second wave, emerging in the 1970s, added a focus on thoughts and their influence on emotions and behavior. This gave rise to the “traditional” CBT many people are familiar with, which often focuses on identifying and changing unhelpful patterns of thinking.

The third wave, beginning in the 1990s, took a different approach. Rather than trying to eliminate difficult thoughts and emotions, therapies like Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) focus on changing our relationship to them, so they no longer hold us back, whether they change or not. Third-wave approaches also place greater emphasis on living a full and meaningful life, rather than making symptom reduction the primary goal of therapy.

Third wave approaches emphasize the role of mindfulness, values and compassion as essentials for effective living, and Psychological Flexibility as the overarching goal of therapy. You can read more about these concepts below.

 

Specific therapies I use in my practice include:

Focusing on the therapeutic relationship

 

As important as theory and techniques are to effective therapy, they matter little without a strong, close relationship between therapist and client. Without this kind of relationship, it can be difficult to do the intimate, personal work of getting to know ourselves and trying out new ways of living and relating.

The therapeutic relationship can also serve as an incredibly helpful “laboratory” for creating and sustaining the kind of fulfilling, close, and safe relationships we all desire outside the therapy room. My experience as both a therapist and a client has shown me the immense power of a quality therapeutic relationship, and I place a great deal of emphasis on the relationships I develop with my clients.

Putting it all together…

My approach to therapy involves weaving these different models and areas of knowledge together into one powerful, cohesive, structured-yet-flexible framework for helping clients to live their best lives. My approach is also informed by my personal journey.

Ready to take the first step?

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